Welcome to Psych Central. It is difficult as kaliope says to be the referee, therapist and stay stable all at the same time. Take care of yourself so you do not get burned out.
Glad you are joining us here. There are lots of compassionate people here that can make the load lighter by sharing and caring. Feel free to participate actively at Psych Central.
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