That is a very touching story. I think your heart is in the right place. Give the flowers to people not just place them on the grass in the cemetary.
What else can you give? Giving is what gives people joy.
Many people who are actively involved in Psych Central find it helps take them out of their own problems to develop empathy for others. And their problems though still there are more manageable.
There are lots of compassionate people here that can make the load lighter by sharing and caring. Feel free to participate actively at Psych Central. Some people find the forums give them the compassion and empathy they seek.
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