If my T got that close, I would probably die.

No... not a good idea.

I wouldn't ask for a hug. I don't think I would ever want to hug him.

Maybe your T was trying to make that type of intimate contact that T's so often do, without touching?

Like how one time my T leaned real forward in his chair, and made intense eye contact and told me something that of course I forgot because I was so intent on him leaning forward.

Good thing he didn't fall off the chair.

How do you feel about your T standing so close? I know you said confused... of course.... I'd feel confused in the moment, too... but now how do you feel, since you've had a bit of time to process it?