I hope someone can help me, and fast. My fiance is soooo super sensitive and over emotional. The smallest things hurt his feelings and even when we talk about it, and resolve what ever the issue was, the next day he'll say "I'm not doing so good". That's his way of saying he still feels hurt, that he still needs comforted, etc. These little issues were few and far between when we first got together. But now they're practically daily or at least every other day. Last week he cried 6 different times!! He is so needy constantly! He tells me when he is feeling this way, he needs me to be overly loving, to hold him tight, etc. I'm an incredibly independent person, totally opposite of him. So these breakdowns, and constantly be butthurt over every little thing, and the multiple crying spells...omg!! Its like a total role reversal. He's the woman, and I'M the man in the relationship. It's gotten to the point where I'm literally incredibly agitated when he gets in these moods. And he's always very much "poor me, so sad for me, I'm always a victim". We've broken up several times, and each time we've gotten back together, he's mentioned he "was going to blow the back of his skull off", or that he was going to "eat his gun". We just got into another huge fight and he again has made numerous "innuendos" about having the next 2 days off, and that I've got those 2 days to figure out if I really care about him like I say I do. Etc... I don't know WHAT to do. I can't keep living with someone who is sucking me dry emotionally, who cries more in 1 wk than I do in a month+, who constantly uses suicide as a means to keep me from leaving?! Even my 15/yr daughter is getting annoyed, & irritated. She tells me all the time that he needs to "grow a pair". I don't know what to do!!!