I think it would help if people were clear what type of responses they are hoping for. There is nothing wrong with requesting validating comments only. But it is not fair to ask for opinions in general & then lash out as those who take the time, mostly in an effort to help, and address this OP's query.

I've seen a few posters doing this - i.e. Asking for a general 'what do you think' and then flaming those who suggest alternatives. Seriously, however well-meaning one is, it makes it hard to even venture out to respond to certain people. It would only take *one* sentence to specify: 'I only want X type of comments'. I know it puts me off responding at times.

Sorry but there should be some personal responsibility for thread starters as well. It is not realistic, nor fair, to expect well-meaning responders to tiptoe around said OPs. :/