Pinksoil,

I love this. Oh, yes I would say you are correct. Lucky you.

I also hang on to any mention or hint of out of session thoughts....I called T last week after my eye surgery and left a message that I was okay. When I saw him a few days later, he expressed concern that he should have called me back, and was I upset that he didn't, etc. So, I said, no but was happy that he was worried....

Yeah, great news. Hold onto it!!