Thank you for not saying, "I told you so" or bringing up the codependency discussion again.

Yes, I am backsliding bc I brought him here to live with me, but how was I to leave him in what I perceived to be abusive situation when all I ever wanted in my life was for someone to help me. He's a 13-y.o. in a 51 y.o. body. I remember very clearly what was happening to me at 13.