So true. It's the way I feel about that whole trigger thing they want us to do. We are supposed to be able to predict what might trigger someone else? Heck, I can barely predict what will trigger myself much less anyone else. People have to take some responsibility for their own reactions/triggers/responses to other people's comments. Unless a poster is being blatantly abusive in their manner of posting (which doesn't happen very often), most people post the best they can based on their own experience and knowledge. They may hit or miss the mark with any particular poster at any given time based on what a member is personally thinking and feeling at that moment. We can do what we can, but at some point, the reaction to a given response is ultimately only in the power of the person who has that reaction.