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Old May 05, 2015, 12:23 AM
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Yes I am here in Virginia. I have been doing the best I can to unpack, learn where all the shopping centers are, change my license. I sent out a few resumes to find a personal trainer position. I did two interviews. Those with anxiety need no explantation on what I am going through in that department.

The weather turned warm here and we learned that the central air conditioner does not make it to the 3rd floor of the townhouse that has the bedrooms. We told the landord but it is only one zone. We closed all the vents in the basement and the main floor but it does not help so the basement pretty much gets all the air conditioning and is freezing cold and our bedroom, guest room and office gets none. It renders that floor useless. I am very upset over this. This place is not cheap to rent. Right now I am trying to sleep on the couch. We are going to have to move again when the lease is up because I refuse to pay this kind of rent when one part of the living space is useless for part of the years. This is not helping my mental health.

I found a psychologist down here but so far he is not helping much. I only saw him 3 times. I guess I need to give him a chance. My husband started his new job today so anxiety level around here is high and will remain so for a while.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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