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Originally Posted by puzzle_bug1987
And people who give advice that is rejected should not get upset about that as well. That kind of thinking works both ways. I think it's easier said than done though sometimes. Most of us are struggling and sometimes people are really emotional when they post and it would be good to have some mercy and compassion and forgiveness. Or just stay off the thread that upsets you.
I see people get triggered by posters who remind them of their father/mother/sister/brother/neighbor/whoever and they can't seem to get beyond that triggered feeling and they seem to take out their anger and frustration on the poster.
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I agree with you. I think any post should contain mercy and compassion, even if it's an advice peice. I just also think a little discloser on the part of an OP would be necessary in many circumstances. No one needs all the details. Also, other posters can't fully understand all of someone's circumstances. This needs to be understood. If a poster knows they have a specific trigger, they should state that. The problem is this a text wall service. I don't/can't know what may/may not be triggering unless someone tells me. Also, it may actually benefit someone to here a different perspective which can be a huge part of support, but it depends on the circumstances. No replier can be expected to know all of the circumstances.