And people who give advice that is rejected should not get upset about that as well. That kind of thinking works both ways. I think it's easier said than done though sometimes. Most of us are struggling and sometimes people are really emotional when they post and it would be good to have some mercy and compassion and forgiveness. Or just stay off the thread that upsets you.

I see people get triggered by posters who remind them of their father/mother/sister/brother/neighbor/whoever and they can't seem to get beyond that triggered feeling and they seem to take out their anger and frustration on the poster.