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Old Jun 23, 2007, 07:09 AM
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I've posted about the fact that my best friend and I are no longer in touch and that she has behaved very hurtfully since she became ill.She has now broken off all contact.I'm seeing other friends who treat me properly and doing other things.

Yet I find the hurt my friend caused me won't go away.For the majority of the time the friendship was all on her terms-now once again,she's broken off contact..........regardless of my feelings.I vary between feeling sad for the lost friendship ,the fact that she's ill,and feeling angry for how I've been treated.(Surely my feelings are no less important just because she's ill?-also ,she's acknowledged that her illness has never stopped her from doing somehting if she really wanted to-which makes me think she sometimes uses it as an excuse for plain hurtful behaviour). Sometimes I feel I want to contact her and get off my chest all those angery feelings.Would that help me? Would it be the best thing to do?.