I guess I don't see what the first one I see does as mirroring because it is never the point of what I was saying in the first place and secondly - no **** - so ****ing what? I am not an idiot - I know I don't like to be humiliated. I don't need a therapist to tell me that. If she wanted to do an accurate mirroring =she could say "I see you don't find it useful when I state the obvious and treat you like you are a moron"

These statements she makes are NOT the point of what I am trying to get at. Her statements make it seem like she is NOT listening to what I am saying.
I don't feel heard, affirmed, validated or listened to when she says these sorts of pointless, obvious, useless pap that have NOTHING at all to do with the point I am trying to get across.