Her responses do not make me feel heard because they never have anything to do with what I was trying to convey.
Plus I tell do her all the time (or at least all the time when I stupidly let her talk) this sort of thing is not useful because I don't see the point in them and I don't see how they relate to what I was trying to convey.

It is a good thing we are having a break for about a month right now.