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Well, that sounds like an object constancy issue to me but hey, I 'm not the therapist here. Does it frighten you? Do you feel abandoned? Or is it like you just move on to the next thing. I have a lot of all of those feelings.

Sometimes I think I could just quit therapy right this minute and move on. I mean I could do this without a blink of an eye and other than a few cringes, just forget about all the work we have done and forget about him. That is when I am REALLY disconnected, in an unhealthy way. No object constancy, no relationship constancy. in this example, the relationship is the object I think. A week is too long for me between sessions. I wish I could go 2 x per week but it's too expensive.