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Originally Posted by stopdog
I can't figure out if she thinks I am moron or if she is a moron or if she simply can't handle silence.
"You don't like being humiliated" = really? what is this supposed to mean? Who the hell likes to be humiliated? It was not even the point of why I was relating the incident.
"Stupidity of others frustrates you" = yes - of course it does. Who goes hurrah - I am dealing with an idiot? Again her response was not even related to the point of why I was relating the incident.
"Your response was normal" I don't ****ing care if it was normal or not -I did not ask if it was abnormal - I did not imply it was not normal. I did not say I was a unique ****ing little snowflake. Why on earth are you responding with it is normal?
"I think it is good you did X" - I didn't ask your ****ing permission. I don't need your ****ing approval.
And her **** with me response when I ask is that she did not really have a reason. Then shut the **** up if you don't have a reason to say something.
Quit messing with me.
Does the one you see do things like this? Are such statements from those guys useful for you?
I am not asking for advice or interpretation on what I do.
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They seem to think that making an observation is putting your feelings into words. You could always tell them to stop. Mine always says "you're very strong". I said stop saying that, I don't feel strong, I feel like a mess.