Well I think he thought that it was about him to begin with and that i was breaking up with him, but i think he kinda found it useful, to help him understand what the "relationship" is with SI(if that makes sense)...but my problem is that i don't talk about it with him...i can talk about it over msn, in email, or txt, but i can't physically talk about it with him...the words don't come out...and i wish i could.