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Old Jun 23, 2007, 10:59 AM
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(((((((((regrets)))))))))

I think you need to re-evaluate what you offered to this guy. Ask some questions of yourself as to the real reason you offered to drive his car for him. What is your real motivation for doing that?

Of course, you can make any decision you wish to make, but can you live with the possible consequences of those choices? Are you offering this to stay in his life in some way? Are you offering this because you truly just want to help and have no hidden agenda (ie. sex)? Are you afraid of being alone so much that any tidbit of connection with this man helps with the fear factor? How will you feel about yourself after the fact? These are hard questions and need to be as truthfully answered as you can.

I suspect, the reason you are asking is because you are unsure of yourself and what you offered. What is your "gut" telling you?? I have learned over the years to trust my gut instincts as they are truthful and never let me down.

Good luck m'dear. I hope you do what is right for YOU! Take care of #1 first.....You are the one who has to live with yourself and every decision you make.

Hugsssssss
J