SD I hate being late to your thread, it's so fun!

The whole "you hate to be humiliated" stuff sounds like what I've been urged to do with my 1st grader, who has trouble saying what's what so screams and throws tantrums instead. The very idea of anyone talking to you like a first grader just makes me cringe!

My T usually says "can we reframe that?" "Instead of saying you are always wrong, can you say you are sometimes right?" "You're developing your growing edge."

I get that I am hyper-focused on the negative, and it is her job to point out my flawed thinking, but sometimes I just really don't want my mind read!