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Originally Posted by divine1966
I respect your decision. I suggest that you two go to family therapy so he can learn better ways? He doesn't sound like a bad guy just someone who doesn't know how to do things
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But I know I'm not alone in thinking how I do because his daughter thinks he's the same way and she was not afraid to yell and curse at him in their blow up. Meanwhile while this whole blow up was going on, I had gone into the bathroom and shut the door because I was so shook up by it and didn't know what to do. Of course he comes in and says to me "So this is how you are going to react when she's acting this way?" She even said to him "You are SUCH a narcissist". He laughed in her face and said "Oh really? You don't even know what you are talking about!" I'm thinking "Wow, she nailed that on the head." That plus the fact that he can't seem to get along with a majority of the people he works with or for and always blames them for the problems says a lot. Other times when he gets upset that her and I were spending too much time without him (because he was busy playing video games or working on his motorcycle) or he thought we were plotting against him, he'd go off on us and would just leave the house and get in the car and go somewhere for 30 minutes and come back without a word. He just gets so damn volatile over things which is why I can't stand up to him. Half the time I just stutter out a response and it sounds ridiculous and meek and he just yells over me.