Lifesucks4menow, I am sorry you are going through a tough time. I have read your first post as well.

My condolences for your the loss of your mother. This is a time where your husband should support you, not make you more depressed.

What is it that you and your husband usually argue about? What things from the past that you did wrong does he constantly bring up? You can share as much as you feel comfortable, it is all anonymous anyways - I just think think providing a bit more detail may help so that your situation could be more fully understood.