Well if he isn't doing what he needs to be going then you yourself can go to therapy or and Al-anon. Take care of yourself.

Also I go understand 11 years and so on. But unless you are 90 years old you have more life to enjoy. I am not saying you must leave but your life back! Have hobbies and do stuff! Let him be angry or not, it shouldn't ruin your life

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