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Originally Posted by Rose76
Would you be able to support yourself, if you had to. Part of your dependence on your mother and, now, your husband, could be that you are dependent on someone else for a roof over your head. That can be a realistic fear. Have you ever worked?
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Oh I pretty much support myself now. I have savings (had a lot more before I met him) and I have worked since I was 18. I stayed with my mom until I was 27, not for money or a roof over my head, but because she didn't want me to leave. I wanted to move out with a friend the year after I graduated college but my mom found every reason for me not to move out saying "Oh I thought you wanted your own apartment?" and " I don't know if you'd get along with her". Just anything to get me not to move and if I did I'd get the silent treatment.
Right now I'd say every month I pay 90% of all the bills because he can't help out.