Dear Regrets --

I mostly agree with everything Sabau has said. The boyfriend sounds like the kind of guy who is going to keep on making those sexual innuendos because it makes him feel good to have you sniffing around his door. I worked in a health care environment for a while, and physicians in general have huge egos. Everything in their lives conspire to convince them of this -- getting into med school, getting through med school, deference from nurses and patients, proud parents. There is really little in their lives to anchor them.

He probably isn't doing this consciously, as men are terribly unreflective about themselves.

As Sabau suggested, perhaps it would be good for you to take a time out and figure out what makes you satisfied in yourself.

Best wishes for figuring it all out. It sounds emotionally very complicated.