My grandma thank God helped me out but come to find out my fiance had a secret stash of money I didn't know about. He keeps money hid from me so that way I don't spend it too. I found what all of you said to be very helpful thank you. I need to try some of the things all of you suggested. I asked my fiance today if he wouldn't mind helping me by taking my debit card when I get paid tomorrow and take over 100% control of all my money until I get a little money in savings and he agreed to. He knows about all the problems I have with money and is being supportive in the best way he knows how.