My chest is too large to bind and it looks really bad when i try to. for a while it bothered me but now i've come to accept and even be proud of my chest. however people take me less seriously about being actually trans, which frustrates me because since when does being agender mean i have to look masculine??? (i actually do try to look as masc as possible but it still pisses me off that people think this)

Anyone else do the same, or have another reason for not binding? how does this affect how people treat you?