I have a lot in common with you. Early 30's, no relationship, no kids.... I have more energy at night (or maybe I just feel safer cause I'm not seen) I'm also a manager, though I'm not suited to it, and it is very difficult for me.

I want to be in a relationship. Someone I would fit with. But it is really hard for me to meet and get to know people in general.... And I'm inexperienced, if someone was interested its scary to think how they would react to that.

I wish I had something more optimistic to say other than "me too". I guess just keep trying. Sometimes I think of people I know that are in a relationship and I really have a hard time picturing them with anyone other than who they are with.... so I think if they can find someone maybe I can too.... and you.