I think my trust issues with Mental Health people is off the charts right now, not in a good way. When you pay for a service you expect to get it, as a customer. I know some will dispute this Provider/customer relationship, but that's what it is. The T is not your friend, unless you have to pay people to be your friend and that could be a whole other therapy topic. You pay the T to provide a service, like a community college/college teacher. You pay to get that education offered to you. Now you may grasp it, or maybe not, but you have paid that person to try to teach you something.