What an idiot. You can do better. I'ld say that taking care of your elderly dad is about as religious as it gets. What's his claim to fame as a "Christian." I thought we were all imperfect beings and that none of us lived up to our potential. He sees himself as different . . . a regular Pharisee, I'll bet.

I'm sorry for your pain, but I hope someday you can look back and see this as him doing you a favor. Find some genuinely spiritual people to connect with. This guy is not the real article.