I gotta to say to you Mellors - that you touch a sore point here! The glass too full statement meant that I wanted to respond in the early hours of the morning - with a jug of coffee! I felt you deserved that much respect! And now the reason I say you have hit a sore point is that much of my histrionics have been under the influence .... and now I have already said too much! I knew there was a reason I was asking you these questions.... Oh, yes - I know crying doesn't work - I don't do it on purpose - it just kind of consumes me and takes over. I do talk. Dear Husband will show his burnt ears in testimony - I just find that emotion takes over ..... one thing I can say without a shadow of a doubt - I don't cry on purpose ....

Mellors - you have proved your sensitivity! I didn't once, but I really like you now!