I feel for you... If I were in your position and did not see a long term future with this guy, I would not invest further time in the relationship. With that said, it is very important that you DO take time to seriously consider whether a long term future with him is possible or not. I understand the reluctance to convert one's religion upon marriage. But have you discussed with your boyfriend more details about what his religion is like? Will he or his family have certain expectations of you that you absolutely do not want to follow through? My suggestion is to try your best to make an informed decision. Make sure you really do understand what his expectations are of a future wife. Depending on where you're living, etc. some people may choose to strictly follow or be more lenient towards different customs and traditions related to religion. Talk to your boyfriend to understand it all from his perspective.