She really knows how to push my buttons now and work the guilt trips in. I try to explain to her that I have things to do in my life and that I can't just stop to take care of her issues, then she cries. And says how she would do that for me, and she would, but I try not to ask her for things in a "now" time frame. I know when she is no longer here I am going to hate myself for feeling this way, it's already started.