I'm a big believer each person gets a free night out...low level responsiblities...then each of you go out on a date...weekly would be nice

Schedules may require biweekly or whatever...as long as it comes in groups

The idea is each of you get time out on your own...so you never get angry or feel hurt by the other...and you stay connected by going out...

I will admit I did not do this while I was married...I believe that this would have changed our view of each other drastically...I plan on doing it when I date again...