It probably won't pass...unless he has a desire to refocus...maybe a sit down (assertive and direct not pouncing on him) with him that you are willing to jointly work on the marraige...and that he needs to take more than just an active role...but a leadership roll...that both of you as leaders can do what is needed to repair what has been damaged...sound reasonable to you?

If he can't take a leadership role or even just an active role and you've told him that is what is necessary...I think you have figured out something very important about his view on this marraige...right?