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Originally Posted by NewLyfeForReal
I agree with Christina, often the best long term relationships do start as friendships first!
To me it does sound like you have a significant crush on this guy. Tell him how you feel, there's a chance he may feel the same, and a chance he may not. In either case, you won't really know until one of you speaks up - and if he is shy, your best bet is to speak up yourself! Just say you have a crush on him, in my opinion love takes much more time to develop. See how he reacts. It will tell a lot about his character and whether he's someone worthwhile for a relationship or a friendship. And in case this is a thought you have: telling someone you have a crush on them shouldn't affect a friendship! If he's a great guy, no matter whether he is interested in a relationship with you or not, he should respond in a kind way.
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Yeah I agree that it shouldn't affect our relationship in a negative way....he's a kind person, so he won't shun me or anything over it lol funny thing is is that I've described my 'type' of guy to him, and he happens to pretty much fit the bill(tho I have only had one boyfriend ever, so I'm not sure what I want 100%) and I wasn't even trying to make that happen..it just kinda did, and he said that he was flattered...I wanted to ask him the type of girl he liked, but I got shy lol im just so nervous about this, because I never tell boys that I have feelings and whatever for then, I just keep it to myself.
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Ahhhh the unknown.. I know its scary.. But, best advice I can offer is tell him how you feel..Maybe he feels like he is in your " friend zone" too..
Im 43 and over 13 years ago I told my "best friend" that I loved him and he loved me back, he was feeling the same way , but not sure how to tell me.. Silly man . lol
Often the best long term relationships start as friendships first. Be brave
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Thanks...I want to be brave...but I don't know how. Like, I want to get my feelings off my chest, but I don't want it to seem like im pressuring him to date me or anything of that nature...I'd just like to have a one to one talk with him about it, because I'm not sure what I feel exactly...
And may i ask...how did the relationship work out with your friend?
