I meant (mistyped) your general sex.

I think your fantasies would be problematic if they include him. However, I don't know that you should NOT say anything either. As far as your past I think you should absolutely should talk to him.

I also wanted to discuss sexual issues with T and it took about 4 years to get to the point where I felt comfortable. It eventually came up when we were having an emotional session and she said something in regards to my husband and I blurt it out...very uncomfortable. She handled it very well and has been very compassionate and tries to make me feel as comfortable as possible.