Hi Seeya, that advice above is worth paying attention to. I don't know anything about the law regarding these things, which is why I encouraged you to get legal advice. If your husband is racking up a bunch of debt, I'ld move quick to protect myself from that. If I was you, I would read and re-read Eskie's post above.

Soon you may have a nice income. You don't want to spend years paying off his bills. See if your state has legal separation. (Not all states do.) Like I said, I'ld get a separation, if I was you, even if I wanted to try and save the marriage. It would give you some leverage. (Frankly, I don' think there is much there worth saving, but that's up to you.) You don't want him to make a financial mess of your life that you will be over age 30 by the time you straighten it out.