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I just moved from NH to VA so I know exactly what you are going through. My anxiety was over the top and I just did not think I could survive the emotions. One day at a time, one thing at a time......so much that has to get done when you move. I just can't leave the house and drive anywhere without the GPS because I have not built up a mental map of the roads and where everyhting is in relations to where I live. Big big adjustment. They say it takes 5 years before a place feels like home!
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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