i think when someone says soft porn to me its like watching a movie that they have tender sex in...it has alittle more displayed obiviously than any normal movie but its an actual movie with a man and woman making love(thats the kind i like)...not banging each other....

as for porn ...its the raunchy pictures of like men whipping women ....or women kissing (more than kissing alot of the time) women...that is degrading to me....see especially for porn seen by men ..they have big egos ....so its plays into that...the pictures of men always show their penises like so large (we know it cant possibly be real!!!) and women with like DDD breasts ....its ridiculous....and nasty...it turned something beautiful into something disgusting...its probably the thing that turned minds into thinking sex was gross ....