Welcome dazed! Aw gee didn't you say you've been reading our posts for a while? And you ask if pity parties are ok???? LOL we have them regularly, with a different host/hostess each time! But true, if you throw party after party and say the same thing and don't acknowledge replier's posts... then, well you go to the dog house. (We're all mentally "unwell" too, remember and have limited aspects some days....)

So come on back and post... we care, really!