I know there are no rules but in general how long does it take for people up be in love and/or know they are compatible for long term?

I have been in different situations and know there are no rules but i am also often in denial.

I have been dating someone since February but he was gone one month overseas with limited communication so it's really been only 2 months. We are busy with confusing schedules so our time together is limited. I still feel that by now we would know?

Mind you we have fun and chemistry and he is nice but something tells me it should be here by now. by IT I mean emotional intimacy and love

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