I've never fallen in love quickly, its only ever happened long after I've really gotten to know and love them as a person first, and if I must admit how thick I can be, it usually needs to be pointed out to me that I'm in love.


My current bf, we were best friends during HS, and he had to point out to me that what we were feeling was more than platonic love.


Anyway, I didn't know then we were compatible long term, we were just kids and didn't end up dating anyway.


We lost touch for years after graduation because he went to sail around the world.


I knew we were long term material 7 years later when we met up and all those feelings were still there for both of us.


It was unexpected, overwhelming and confusing, yet beautiful all at once.


We've had our ups and downs like any couple, and even separations, but I know this is IT, because nothing has managed to change what IS, not time, space, people, things or circumstance.


So long answer short, 2 months would never be enough time in my book. I need to fall in love with someone's soul before I can fall in love with them. And it takes quite some time to know someone on such a purely intimate level.