I've been with my t for 2 and a bit years. We have never had a rupture or a painful misunderstanding throughout that period. Sure, she has done things that some may find rupturing, but not me. She has done things I find understandable and perfectly reasonable given the circumstances, such as repling late to emails, canceling sessions when she's been sick, going away for 2-4 weeks at a time, calling the emergency MH services so they could provide care for me in times of crisis. Nothing I so far has caused a rupture.

I'm curious about other people's experience in ruptures in t. What caused the rupture and how was it resolved?