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Originally Posted by NewLyfeForReal
divine1966, I feel for you. Hugs!
Do you have an idea (or ideas) about what might make him reluctant to want to get to know you to a deeper level? A thought I had in mind that may or may not apply to your situation: maybe he is reluctant to share something from HIS past so he does not ask you "more" so that in turn he tries to avoid you asking him "more".
I've experienced this with my boyfriend at times, things I didn't want to tell him so even though I was actually curious to learn more about him, I didn't want the question to be turned on me and to have to answer it myself.
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That could be but he typically shares with no hesitation when I do ask.
I have a feeling he just might not be that interested. In me. Not deeply interested kind if superficially
But then again I knew someone who wanted to know every single thing about me which I thought was a sign of deep feelings lol he then turned out to have a serious long term girlfriend while "dating" me. Gee.
He almost never had any time for me ( no he wasn't working a lot of hours so I couldn't figure out what he was doing) outside of constant asking questions on the phone. I told him that it is not working for me. He acted like an a... But I then later I accidentally discovered he has a girlfriend and had her way before he asked me out the first time . Not dating other people but she is a serious one. Why the heck bothering me then? Yet he knew everything about me as he asked many questions
Luckily we didn't have sex!
So asking lots of questions could mean something or nothing!!
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