I have been with T for almost 7 years I don't believe we have ever had a rupture. I get frustrated but rarely get really angry. Even with my husband in the 20 years we have been married we have probably had 5 fights. It takes a lot for me to get upset with other people. There have been a few times I have been frustrated when it comes to emailing T as she might not respond quickly enough or whatever. However, even without saying anything to her, I usually figure out why in our next session based on things she says. I have learned that she is not ignoring my emails. A short time ago. We did have a miscommunication in an email. And we both became frustrated. She had sent me 2 emails back to back but I didn't received the 2nd one until later one. So she actually thought I was thinking about finding a new T. We were able to work it out through the emails. At our next session we very briefly discussed that sometimes it happens in emails and that we were able to clear things up quicky.