I had one rupture with my t. It was quite awhile ago and was most unpleasant. It was mostly my fault, I own that. Basically I didn't like the way a phone session was going and I hung up on her. (and I do NOT hang up on people!) I felt abysmal for days, cried randomly, meh it was awful. A few days later I called her with my tail between my legs and apologized, said I knew I had destroyed our relationship, etc. She was most gracious, accepted my apology, said that it was damaged, but not destroyed, and like any relationship it could be repaired. So we scheduled again and set about repairing it. It didn't take long, as I recall. Anyway I think after the fact that our therapeutic relationship became stronger for it, that it probably did have something to do with re-enacting like mouse said. It was a huge lesson for me all the way around. I am SO lucky to have had her for my t!!