Hello The Madcap,

Two years with someone at your age is rare and wonderful, you must be a keeper! It could be that your past relationship where you were cheated on and treated badly is in the back of your mind. Just because that happened before, does not mean that it will happen again. I think women often forget that men need to know how much they are cared about and a man likes to hear that too. I suggest you have a real good sit down chat and let her know how you feel.