Grace, I'm so sorry for the sudden loss of your 30 year old brother....sudden loss gives us no time to prepare..to say goodbye. I think it's wonderful that you agreed to life support and donated so others could live.

Another reason I was so very angry at our son...he was a big healthy 31 yr old who could have done the same...his body wasn't found until the next day.

I just returned from church...we have such a wonderful compassionate Pastor who tries hard to show me "how."...I felt this mornings' sermon was directed at me...once again she talked about forgiveness.

I can't tell you all how much this support and advice is appreciated. Thank you.