My Pdoc refers to some of the very rare 'ruptures' we've had, as a way of discussing the concept of 'rupture and repair' (mainly to illustrate the fact that I don't need to mentally beat myself up every time I have a minor tiff with a friend). The thing is though I don't consider any minor disagreements, or annoyances (for want of a better word) we've had between one another to actually be a 'rupture' - to me a rupture involves way more than that, like shouting, yelling, storming off and slamming doors level of more.