What he does after you break up with him is his business and it is not your responsibility. If he threatens suicide, call the police.
Please read up on
emotional blackmail:
Out of the FOG - Emotional Blackmail
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I just want to safely get out of this without hurting anyone.. Is there a way to do that?
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Yes. Leave and don't hurt anyone on the way out. If he chooses to hurt himself, that is not your fault.
He will control you for the rest of your life if you allow him to use emotional blackmail on you.
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